On the night before Christmas Eve in 2016. Kalea ( my oldest daughter) had a super bad earache. The girls and I had our own apartment. Gracelynn was already asleep, and it always took forever for her to go to sleep. All I knew was to call one of my friends. I remembered my Grandmother telling us that when you blow smoke in someone's ear. It will make their ear stop hurting or relieve pressure. So who did I call? I called Wesley, and I asked him if he smoked. He said no? why? I said Kalea has an ear ache, and I can't go anywhere. He said what is your address? Well, I told him. Not really thinking he was going to come. Mind you, I met him online belive it or not. He said hold on I'm coming. Believe it or not this boy showed up at 1 am Christmas Eve morning. Kalea was asleep already of course. So we just stayed up talking, and ever since we have been together. It has been the best years of my life.